I like to think that I am a good friend, sister, daughter and wife... but there are days where I think what has happened to my life. SOOOOOOOO many things have changed in the last 6 months, some things I have really enjoyed and some things I have learned to just get over... or try to get over!
My family has become my best friends, not that we weren't close before, we are just even more close now. I have gained an even better relationship with my husband since renovating our kitchen/diningroom/familyroom. I wouldn't change it for the world! I wouldn't change having my dad at my house everyday after work helping us, teaching us, and spending some time with us. My dad is a very loving, patient, and caring man. He also isn't afraid to tell us what we have done wrong even if it will hurt our feelings. I love how he wants my house to be the way I want it and not any other way! I love my dad and I'm grateful for the helpful person he is. My mom also is the best for making us meals even if she didn't feel good, because she didn't want us to go hungry! I also love going home for lunch to hang out with her for that little amount of time! She is the best and I don't know what I would do without her!
One day I was going to hang out with my sisters for Brandi's birthday and jokingly Gentry said you can't say you are having a girls night when its your sisters, you have girls nights with your girl friends. I proceeded to ask him hey dude what are you doing tonight then... he said well I was thinking of calling kyle to go to dinner... bahaha my point proven we have NO FRIENDS! haha! Since being married I guess we have a fallen off the friend radar, I don't know if that is normal but it seems to be for us! Its sad that it has happened but I can only do so much until I get a little exhausted trying! So we are asking hey be our friends, well if you want of course! haha
I always dreamed of what married life was going to be like.... well what I thought was dropped a long time ago. It has gone completely different then I could ever imagine! That doesn't mean I don't love it tho! I am always striving to be a better person, friend, daughter, sister thats all I can do!
Here is to the past 6 months and eternity! I love you Shumway!
One day I was going to hang out with my sisters for Brandi's birthday and jokingly Gentry said you can't say you are having a girls night when its your sisters, you have girls nights with your girl friends. I proceeded to ask him hey dude what are you doing tonight then... he said well I was thinking of calling kyle to go to dinner... bahaha my point proven we have NO FRIENDS! haha! Since being married I guess we have a fallen off the friend radar, I don't know if that is normal but it seems to be for us! Its sad that it has happened but I can only do so much until I get a little exhausted trying! So we are asking hey be our friends, well if you want of course! haha
I always dreamed of what married life was going to be like.... well what I thought was dropped a long time ago. It has gone completely different then I could ever imagine! That doesn't mean I don't love it tho! I am always striving to be a better person, friend, daughter, sister thats all I can do!
Here is to the past 6 months and eternity! I love you Shumway!
3 comments:
Awe you two are cute :) And yes...we dropped of the friend radar after marriage too. I consider family 'friend time' though so we still 'hang' with people. :) Love the post! You are amazing!
I told you it would happen! I'm not the only looser that doesn't hang out with my friends anymore. You are a great sister and aunt and I'm grateful to have you in our lives.
Hey Hey, we will be your friends!! Come to San Francisco!!
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